Resilient bounce
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Under the
moonlight, down to my bones, “there is a balm in Gilead to make the wounded
whole”.
However, healing can take many forms
and just as there is a geography of the land, there is one of the body and one
in our neurology, our minds. As well as green fingered medicine we can tap into
a store of therapeutic and coaching techniques for our cognitive ruptures and
mental wounds.
The challenges we face as a collective
civilisation are big – they stretch us, test us, try our resource. Crises seem
to throw us off-balance, disrupt our plans and timings. This is the nature of
Mother Chaos, and the true state of the Universe. The only real constant is
chaos – with minor occasions of order. Yet many people navigate through crises
and maintain a positive outlook. They have tools to do this. A Resilience
teacher of mine, Chris Johnstone, tells us that there are 3 types of
resilience:
1) Bouncing Back – recovery
resilience
2) Bouncing Forward – transformative
resilience
3) Bouncing With – adaptive
resilience
But
central in all three of these is inhabiting a growth mindset, where overcoming
any problem can also bring out new qualities in ourselves, hidden skills, clear
perspectives and open minded possibilities. We may not always have a choice in
situations we find ourselves in, but we do have a choice in how we react to
them – and what might come as a result.
So as
well as plant magic, another balm in Gilead also exists to make the wounded
whole: a resilient growth mindset. It's gift is the magic ability to bounce forward, and believe that things can change.
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